I have a bone to pick with you - a friend is

I have a bone to pick with you.It was somewhat of a surprise.

I quote this saying from my heart feeling today, I meant just a few minutes after I read your sms on my phone.

How I can tell you that my heart feeling so and I know, you're not understand even I've explain and talked to you many time. Oh, no. Believe me, I try to explain you next time after everything ok. Why you're not trust me? Why?

Be patient later on you'll know.

I don't understand. Why she acts like that? On the one hand she helped but on the other hand, she undermined you.

What kind of friend do like that?

Am I wrong if I said,

a friend is, someone who supports you all the time, some one to call upon during good and bad times and someone who knows what you are going through at all times?

ok, friend just keep this :

the best way to conquer an enemy is with the weapon of love.

More Joy In Heaven - Sukacita Di Surga

There will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents (Luke 15:7) - Today in Daily Bread.

Demikian juga akan ada sukacita di surga karena satu orang berdosa yang bertobat (Lukas 15:7)

This topic good to share (read : me).

Sukacita di surga. More Joy in heaven. Wah suatu impian setiap manusia kelak bila kita dipanggil olehNYA.

Tetapi apakah setiap yg dipanggil olehNYA masuk surga? Suatu pertanyaan yang menarik bukan?

Jika kita renungkan pertanyaan diatas dan kita lihat sikap dan perbuatan kita serta tingkah laku kita sehari hari apakah sudah mencerminkan ajaranNYA dan kasihNYA?

Sering kita beranggapan bahwa orang benar lah yg akan masuk surga? Tetapi bila mereka tidak melakukan pertobatan??? Bagaimana dengan satu orang yg berdosa tapi bertobat?

All heaven rejoices over one sinner who repents. Seluruh penghuni surga bergembira karena satu orang berdosa yang bertobat.

Kita hidup didunia ini hanya sebentar bukan? Marilah kita berusaha dan terus berupaya agar segala perbuatan, sikap dan tingkah laku kita mencerminkan kasihNYA.

The great GOD who made the heavens,

Keeps the stars within their bound,

Still rejoices with HIS angels,

When a poor lost soul is found - Bosch.

Beberapa Hal Yang Dapat Mendorongmu Untuk Tetap Bertahan

Jika kau merasa lelah dan tak berdaya dari usaha yang sepertinya sia-sia..

Tuhan tahu betapa keras engkau sudah berusaha

Ketika kau sudah menangis sekian lama dan hatimu masih terasa pedih..

Tuhan sudah menghitung airmatamu

Jika kau pikir bahwa hidupmu sedang menunggu sesuatu dan waktu serasa berlalu begitu saja..

Tuhan sedang menunggu bersama denganmu

Ketika kau merasa sendirian dan teman temanmu terlalu sibuk untuk menelepon

Tuhan selalu berada disampingmu

Ketika kau pikir bahwa kau sudah mencoba segalanya dan tidak tahu hendak berbuat apa lagi..Tuhan punya jawabannya

Ketika segala sesuatu menjadi tidak masuk akal dan kau merasa tertekan..

Tuhan dapat menenangkanmu

Jika tiba-tiba kau dapat melihat jejak-jejak harapan..

Tuhan sedang berbisik kepadamu

Ketika segala sesuatu berjalan lancar dan kau merasa ingin mengucap syukur..

Tuhan telah memberkatimu

Ketika sesuatu yang indah terjadi dan kau dipenuhi ketakjuban..

Tuhan telah tersenyum padamu

Ketika kau memiliki tujuan untuk dipenuhi dan mimpi untuk digenapi...

Tuhan sudah membuka matamu dan memanggil dengan namamu..

Ingat bahwa dimanapun kau atau kemanapun kau menghadap...TUHAN TAHU

Peyem and Brownies

Brownies


Peyem

Look at the picture. It's very delicious. It's one of traditional food from Bandung. One of our inspector just back from Bandung and bring this. Want to taste? Welcome...

Idul Fitri 1427 H

7 Fabulous Things

I got home work from my friend. First got from sweet couple and the second from mama jeremy

Looks like same. Isn't it?

Well, I will do it sist'.
Mmmm which part we can say to start...how about this one :


7 things that scares me :
1. my kid crying in middle of night (lucky, our kid never do it before, Thank you God) without my husband beside me
2. no money when I need buy some food for my kid
3. alone at home
4. trapped on the lift
5. trapped by flames
6. watch the horror movie ( I never liked this movie)
7. see a dentist

7 dreams :
1. bring our child to Disney Land (read : in Hongkong)
2. study abroad for our child
3. have own business in our home town (read : Medan)
4. good vacation in every year (read : if we've money)
5. bring our family to see Jerusalem
6. large farm
7. back to my home town (read : will do)

7 things about my family :
1. service in church
2. Tahu and Tempe our favorite food and special traditional food is "Karo"food
3. love singing and dancing with kid
4. simple life and hate a liar
5. bananas and orange are our favorite fruits
6. love cartoon movie
7. like to learn something new

7 date to remind :
1. our wedding
2. kid brithday
3. my mom and dad birthday
4. my mother and father in law birthday
5. sist' and brother birthday
6. schedule immunization for our kid
7. annual regular medical check up

7 random songs at the moment :
1. Hi-5
2. Barney
3. Album from "Hill Song"
4. MLTR
5. Lobo
6. ABBA
7. Radja

7 random fact about me :
1. mom with 2 pretty daughter
2. married with one husband
3. love swimming and reading
4. love cooked and try a new recipe
5. love read a book to my kid
6. love coloring with my kid and never speak loudly to them
7. never miss communication with husband, never argue in front of our kid

7 things I said the most :
1. God Bless You
2. nakku..mari min ( read : traditional language, we keep this language in my family)
3. honey.....
4. Brigitta...Gabie.......be a good girl (read : I always said to them every morning before I go to work)
5. come on dancing with nande ( read : speak to my kid)
6. jump..and hop..hop... (read : speak to my Brigitta)
7. that's bapa, this is nande, you're Gabie, that's a cat, that's a dog, that's a bird, that's a car, that's our auntie....etc..(read : teach Gabie)

Gabie (2)

Me and nande. I like this moment. When my nande not working I can play with her every day.

Hi...I'm Gabie (1)

I was 14 months.




Look at my eyes.





















Nande, stop..don't follow me.


Nande.. are you ready..ooopssss....

@ I want tell you something @

One of my friends asked me :

She : eka, why in your blog typing in English language?
Me : because I want to improve my English
She : which English version are you using ?
Me : pardon ? you meant English-British or English-American ?
She : yes
Me : I’m using English-British.
She : why?
Me : because I like to used it. (smile to her).
Me : you know why ? (asked her)
She : No, can you explain it to me please.
Me : because, I wish I could go there (read : England). I wish may be someday me and my family will go there. (it’s my dream, hopes come true sometimes). For me, England is a historical country.
She : that’s why you always ask your team work about England and talk to them all about England, isn’t it?
Me : thank you for your consideration of me about this. You know, they (read : most of my team work is England) always teach me and correct my language. When I said something to them - if I made a mistake or I said something silly to them, would you please correct my English and you know? They do it for me. Those guys are very good. Once I find a new word and I don’t know what it means and how to spell it , I ask them and they’re very happy to explain to me.
She : I see.
Me : Yes
She : how about your Mandarin?
Me : My mandarin?
Me : mandarin still has a class. I practice it to one of my friend in this project and with my husband sometimes.
Me : how about your English Class?
She : not bad.
Me : what do you meant not bad?
She : yeah
Me : By the way, where are you yesterday ?
She : I’m sick.
She : And you? Why you not in the office for 3 days?
Me : I’m sick too. Infection in my throat. I have a sore throat. Very bad. Can not eat and drink as well and I’ve a high fever.
She : So how do you feel today ?
Me : Be better than yesterday.
She : how about your family?
Me : mmm
She : ok?
Me : it’s ok.
She : how about you vacation plan for this year ?
Me : no plan, stay in Batam until Christmas eve may be go to Singapore or K.Lumpur for a couple days bring my kids play in Genting Island or see my auntie in Singapore.
And you ?
She : Back to Jakarta. For Hari Lebaran. I’ve pass my request form travel to our secretary for supervisor approval. Last Lebaran I do not back home, this year I will do. I’ve promised to my kids to see my mom and dad in Bogor.
Me : ok, see you later, bye now.
She : thanks eka, nice talk to you, see you later too.

Some of my friend (read : my team in project) already fill in they vacation plan in vacation plan form. My family will be staying in Batam no plan for this year.

I just start work on 6 Oct, after get MC from my doctor in our clinic. I’ve sore throat. Very Bad.
And last week Batam is always enveloped in fog , exactly smoke. Very bad. Smoke comes from neighboring island is Sumatera island. Forest burned. Why people can do that ?
Approx one week Batam Island enveloped in smoke. It’s no good for health. Bad vision. Based on Batam Pos (read: Batam Newspaper) yesterday the mayor announce to be careful and used masker if do activity in out door. And be aware for kids playing in out door. Please minimize activity in out door if it’s not very important.
Until now smoke still in the sky. But today looks be better than yesterday. I can saw birds flying, wind is blowing and Mr. Sun smiley. Tk’s GOD.

On my way to back home I saw little children sold newspaper and turn back my head the other kids sleeping beauty on the road, oh my GOD. I get chocked up what I saw, I was filling out. I am very sentimental. For me it’s easy and safe to get emotional over fictional characters and events. I also felt the need to weep. I’m just a softie when it comes to those things. I just remember about my kids, my beloved. Sleep in good room covering warm blanket. Oh, Thank you GOD for what I’ve being a part.

Be humble and you will not stumble. For me weeping seemed the only appropriate response if I saw a contrast around me. (Read: No women no cry, ha ha... it’s me)
“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love” (Eph. 4:2 NIV) True compassion is love action.
Bill Crowder said: As we see condition of the fallen world and the lostness of the people who surround us, let’s ask God to give us a heart that mirrors the heart of Christ- a heart that weeps with Him for a lost world and then reaches out to them in love.